I’m a Butterfly Baby!
I am happy to report that I have my first few followers. It’s encouraging to know that someone is following my efforts and that I could have feedback on what I post. Here is part of one of the comments I have received, along with my response to it.
“Your decluttering efforts are admirable. Having a decluttered house should make for more peaceful children. But where does the stuff go that is moved? I have a big problem with this too. Where to put it?” My response:
Much of the clutter in our house is stuff that needs to go anyway. Kids’ toys that our kids have outgrown, projects kids have brought home from school, etc. We have a local area Facebook group where people post things to buy and sell, like Craigslist. I’m planning to take pictures of everything and post them on the site. If they’re not worth selling, we can put them out on the curb for free. I put clothes out for the Epilepsy Foundation recently, along with a doll cradle complete with doll & clothes. Someone stopped by and picked up the doll cradle for themselves. I call that blessing others with what we no longer need.
There are people like my dad who want to keep everything, including things that no one else will want even for free! I think the rule is that if you haven’t used it in 5 years, it’s likely you’re not going to. I’m having to decide that we can throw things away if no one will ever use it. What I do is put things out for free. If no one else wants it, I can feel free to throw it. We got rid of some things last year when we had a roof redone and had an industrial sized garbage bin in our driveway. I feel bad about what’s going into the landfill. Then I firm up my resolve not to bring anything into the house that we don’t truly need.
I’m FLYing with the FlyLady – babysteps.
I get daily e-mails from www.flylady.net. She is very encouraging and gives daily missions and monthly zones. You build routine, babystepping your way to a peaceful, organized home. The other day the FlyLady said that a mother duck does not make her ducklings follow her. She takes the lead and they get in line and follow. Once the family sees the changes happening, they are supposed to get in line with it too. I live in the hope that my children and husband will pick up the routines so we can all make it part of our daily life.
So far, cleared surfaces are staying clear. My worst “hot spot” is my desk where papers collect, but I’m clearing that more often too. Every little bit makes a big difference. It makes the rest easier, just seeing the progress. Having the accountability of posting my progress makes a difference for me too. I feel like I have to do at least 15 minutes of something that I can post. Someone could be seeing it even if they don’t comment. It would be great though to have someone who is posting their progress also, so we can keep each other accountable.
Asparagus & black beans on rice – something I accomplished today
My flight plan today: I dropped off my youngest for the bus to summer school, then had some breakfast and took a 20 minute walk. Walking is a goal I had made that I haven’t done very well at. By the time I checked e-mail and talked with the insurance company about tween DD’s upcoming surgery (more on that to come), it was time to pick her up from summer school and whisk her over to her baritone lesson.
Following baritone lesson, all 3 kids registered for 4-H projects at our local Extension office, followed by lunch at home. Tween DD Emily and I visited neighbors down the street with little girls that we wanted to get together – an important goal for Emily who doesn’t have many neighborhood friends. Then DS off to TaeKwanDo , supper at Godfather’s buffet, off to watch DH’s softball game, then home to get Emily to bed so she can get up for summer school again in the morning.
So did I accomplish my Flight Plan for today? I needed to make SWAPS for our upcoming CHASA retreat for families of children with hemiplegia, and I wanted to clear the bench by my desk that is becoming a “hot spot”. Neither of these things happened. I did accomplish things that needed to happen – yes! Going to have to work fast tomorrow to make the real Flight Plan fit into my day! It will work! Even though the only change between today’s and tomorrow’s schedules is that teen DD has an oral surgery appointment instead of tween DD having a friend meet and greet. Oh, no TKD either. Okay, it will work!